Well, here we are at the close of 2008. The parties are starting, the timers are counting down, and and if you’re anything like me, you are sitting down at the computer after a quiet day and thinking: … man, what did we do this year? Where did the time go?
So here, as much for my reference as for yours, are the events of 2008, as told through pictures.
January.

Janary is easy. In January, we got married–not just married, but married married married married married. Some folks warned us that the first year of marriage would be the hardest; others assured us it would be the easiest. So far, there’s no way to tell who’s right but one thing’s for sure: we love being married to each other and have had a wonderful year together. I’m excited to see what 2009 has in store for us.
We honeymooned in Tulum, Mexico for a week. It was wonderful.
February.

When people get married in the movies, the next scene has them living in a perfectly organized house. Real life is not like the movies. In real life, you go back from the honeymoon to your real job, and in February we both worked hard, unpacked the house, and found time to spend with our friends and family. This month’s photo is of Kelly with her sister Rachel and brother Erik, who’ve both been great friends to us this year.
We celebrated the conclusion of our first month of marriage with a trip to the Space Needle. And our friends Dan and Carrie got engaged. 2008 was to become the Year of the Wedding.
March.

In March, we celebrated Easter with Kelly’s family. We also had a dinner party and busted out the china for the first time (it wasn’t the last). It started to feel a lot more like we were actually married, and a lot less like we had just put all of our things into one house.
April.

In April, Wedding Season began in earnest with Lee and Gaila’s ceremony on April 12th. This photo of Kelly is from their wedding.
The weather finally started to warm up, and we began working on the yard; one of us (Jonathan) could not recall so much as planting a bulb, whereas the other (Kelly) is a bit of an agricultural genius, but we made progress despite the skill imbalance!
May.

We travelled a lot this year, both in and out of the States. In May, we flew to Wisconsin for a funeral on Kelly’s mother’s side of her family. Jonathan learned where Kelly’s green thumb came from and got to meet many of her relatives on a farm in a small, quiet town.
June.

Kelly had her first 29th birthday in June. Friends and family packed our little house and yard. There was cake, there was ice cream, and there was badminton.
Later that month: more weddings.
July.

In July, we flew to Kansas City for the wedding of our friend Carrie’s sister, Kristen. Her family turned out to be tremendously fun, and we were almost eaten by an enormous spider.
July was also the month of the Annual Family Reunion. We camped out (i.e. stayed in cabins open to the cool night air) at Ramblewood near Sequim, went crabbing (Jonathan’s first time), and read books out on the pier.
August.

Gardening isn’t the only way in which Jonathan and Kelly’s families differ. The McPherson family has never been much for home improvement projects; the Eskesens rather enjoy them. What started as an attempt to prevent our desired paint color from clashing with the current color of the vanity ended up consuming much of August with a full-scale bathroom remodel, complete with a new tile floor, pedestal sink, and even a bit of drywall repair.
We are no longer afraid of home improvement projects.
September.

In September, we took another trip: this one to visit Jonathan’s grandfather and step-grandmother, neither of whom Jonathan had seen in almost a decade. We stayed with aunt Teri and uncle Russ and explored Hollywood and LA in addition to spending some quality time with grandparents.
And two more weddings: Christi and Michael wed in mid-September, and Dan and Carrie followed two weeks later. It’s been pretty great to have so many newlywed friends.
October.

In October, we celebrated Jonathan’s 28th birthday. Kelly wore an “I (Heart) My Husband” shirt for the occasion. And, for symmetry, he received a matching shirt. Here we are, in our matching shirts. I know, I know, we’re very cute.
November.

November saw the wedding season draw to a close; these are our friends Abigail and Adam tying the knot. In November, we also hosted our first Thanksgiving, and Jonathan barbecued a turkey with some help from Kelly’s father.
December.

In December, we flew to South Africa for about two weeks to tell some kids about how valuable they really are, to the world, each other, and ultimately to God. If you’ve been reading this blog at all then you probably already know the story of our first mission trip together, so I won’t retell it. Suffice to say it had more impact on us than anything else in our first year of marriage.
December also brought record-breaking snow and ice to the Seattle area for a week, plus Jonathan’s family came in for a week of Christmas shenanigans. These happened to be on the same week. Great fun ensued.
So–it’s been a big year. We’ve been in three countries and as many states, we’ve found out what it’s like to be married, we’ve celebrated with our families and friends and learned a whole lot about each other and about God.
I wonder what 2009 has in store. We’ll start finding out in a few hours. We can’t wait.