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Youth Workers

Saturday, December 26th, 2009

youthworkers

One of the kids took this picture of us. L to R: me, Jele, Smanga, and Reed.

One of the funny things about going on a “missions trip” is that you go hundreds or thousands of miles to work alongside folks for whom the mission is not a short trip but a lifestyle. And that’s funny because the “missions trip” is a Big Deal to you, and everyone you know makes a Big Deal about the fact that you are going, and just when you start to feel important, you realize that these folks are doing the work day in and day out, and that no one is making a Big Deal about them.  

So, even though they will probably never read this, I want to recognize these two gentlemen: Jele and Smanga, two young men who are working for iThemba Lethu and mentoring dozens and dozens of kids in their school program. These guys have dreams and plans of their own and yet they’ve chosen to spend time with these kids, mentoring them and hanging out with them and teaching them the kinds of things you don’t learn in a classroom. School pretty much sucks for these kids–they told us stories of the teachers beating them, somtimes with pipes–and their home life is usually worse. These two men are the only ones telling some of those boys that they have a hope and destiny beyond the slums.

So guys, if you’re reading this: I can’t tell you how much I admire what you do.

Joyful

Sunday, December 20th, 2009

joyful

I returned from South Africa about a week ago and wanted to share a few memories from the trip with you all, so over the next few weeks I’ll be posting some stories and photographs to the blog.

One of my favorite memories of the trip happened early on, the first night of Leadership Camp.

We’d just barely gotten to know these kids over the course of the first day at camp, and it was already getting dark. We corralled them into the hall and commenced with a wrap-up and some singing.

The youth workers got the children started on a Zulu song–Zulu is the first language for most of these kids–and they sang it loud and proud, getting a little louder and prouder with every repetition of the simple chorus. It was a beautiful sound. If you can get American kids to sing, they usually sing on melody and, as they get older, with mumbling and embarassed self-consciousness. The Zulu boys and girls had no such inhibitions. They sang in rich, improvised harmony.

While they sang, I leaned over to one of them and ask them what the song meant. I don’t recall the exact words, but it sounded like something from Revelations, one of those songs sung to God by creatures with eyes and wings. Holy, holy, holy is the Lord, who is seated upon the throne–that is the closest I can remember.

After the chorus had run through a few times, the youth workers decided it was time to move on with the program, and so they stopped singing, waiting for the children do the same.

But they didn’t. The kids just kept on singing.

After patiently listening to a few more rounds, the youth workers began actively trying to bring the singing down, shushing and making the universal “sit down and calm down” gesture. It’s the same one you’ve seen American teachers use.

It didn’t work. The kids kept on singing. They were beaming.

We all sort of looked at each other with a “what now” expression. Whistles were blown. The singing got louder. The youth workers shook their heads. By this point our protests were only encouraging the kids, so after a quick huddle, we decided to just walk out on them. We waved goodbye, walked out of the hall into the night, and waited around the corner for the kids to get bored with their game.

They didn’t. They laughed and kept singing the chorus, over and over.

Then they began to walk, almost marching, out of the hall, still singing the chorus. They walked themselves out of the hall and they marched past us, toward the cabins. The music finally died down as they spread out across the camp.

The display amazed me. These kids have nothing. Many don’t have parents, or regular food, or even a safe place to sleep. Yet I couldn’t remember the last time I saw children having so much fun or singing with so much joy.

We were all pretty quiet after they left.

“Let’s start with a song tomorrow night,” suggested one of the youth workers.

More thoughts from a rambling pregnant lady

Friday, December 4th, 2009

More than a few people have said to me lately something like, “it’s great you let Jonathan go to South Africa.” Yes, yes, it’s great that Jonathan is in South Africa, but I did not provide him with the permission to go. Oh, I prayed alright, and I know that if I’d ever said anything about wanting him to stay he would have, but ultimately the thing I could not get out of my head was the memory of this photo:

Jonathan and Nhlaka

Jonathan and Nhlaka

You see, this child followed Jonathan around everywhere the whole time we were in Durban last year. While it initially seemed he was most interested in the camera equipment Jonathan carried, it quickly became evident that more than anything he really had a need to be loved and given some attention from a man. His father is not present in the home, his mom works in a factory that is not near their house, so he lives with his older sister and they do the best they can. They’re doing their best, but it isn’t God’s best for them. Jonathan was the only man on our team of eight that traveled to South Africa last year. He was almost always followed or surrounded by a crowd of little boys. Many of these boys don’t have fathers in their homes. When I think of how much we love our little child who is currently only the size of an ear of corn and how hard it must be for those mothers to raise their boys, it was not hard for me to support Jonathan in returning to Durban. Don’t get me wrong, I miss him like crazy and sleep horribly all alone, but it’s worth it. Worth it for me to know that the Lord is using Jonathan to work in the hearts of these children to tell them He has a good purpose for their lives and for Jonathan to love them in a way maybe they don’t experience all that often. My prayer during this time is that they realize that regardless of the situation around them, God is interested in their hearts and their future. God is bigger than AIDS, bigger than shanty towns, bigger than parents who cannot or will not provide for them. My prayer for the people of Cato Manor today comes from Psalm 5:11~
“Let all who take refuge in you rejoice;
 let them ever sing for joy,
and spread your protection over them,
that those who love your name may exult in you.”
Lord, may those who are facing situations that seem terrible still find reasons to rejoice. May your grace and your peace be enough for them. Lord give us wisdom to see how we can serve those who are struggling and may our struggles be seen in the light of your grace and goodness.

Random

Thursday, April 30th, 2009

Well, I’m at work and waiting to get a document so I can work my magic and then send it off and then go home. While I wait, I thought I’d share with you all some of the things that are bouncing around my mind right now because well, nobody else is around.
1. I am really enjoying this website right now: http://foodgawker.com/ I don’t know what I like better, the photos or the recipes but both make me really happy.
2. We are trying a new recipe tonight that involves lining a veggie steamer basket with baby bok choy leaves to cook dumplings. The whole idea just makes me smile. And baby bok choy is so cute!
3. Saturday is the first day of the Redmond Saturday Market for the year and you betcha we’re going to be there! We may even try to be super eco-friendly and ride our bicycles. (Thanks for the bike, Krista!)
4. My shoulder hurts again. It’s making me angry. I get really upset when my body lets me down-even more so when it’s caused by my desk at work.
5. Tomorrow is denim day at the office. I am conflicted over denim day. It seems like a good idea, but the whole day I feel like I’m working on a Saturday and I end up wanting to leave at 2:00. That can’t be good.
6. I really love being married and if you are wondering, Jonathan is the best husband-I couldn’t have ever imagined I would enjoy marriage as much as I do (but who would hate high fives when you come home and someone who helps keep the house stocked with chips and queso, jelly beans and coca-cola classic? I can’t think of anyone.)

And I will leave you with a photo, chosen at random from Jonathan’s flickr page:

(This is actually titled “random guy in a field” which is probably why it came up when I searched for random)

You’re not tired of hearing about Africa, right?

Wednesday, December 31st, 2008

Africa

Africa. To me it seems sort of cliché to say, We’re going on a mission trip to Africa and yet, the call was undeniable. We were going despite the timing and the craziness of our jobs and the fact that I had no vacation time and that I prefer to travel by myself (I know, that last one makes me seem like a terrible, selfish person, which sometimes I am). For months before I was plagued with thoughts of my own inadequacies, that I had nothing to offer compared to the talents of our teammates, that I was forcing my poor coworker to bear the burden of a whole staff to assist on her own during my absence and that there are other people who are better with children or have medical backgrounds or have the ability to captivate crowds with their speaking. Despite all of this, God’s call was clear: GO.

Here is what I learned:
Not surprisingly, children in Africa are like children anywhere.

The girls liked to play with my hair:

During group activities, they encourage and help each other out: 

They LOVE technology:

 

Most importantly, they love being loved. I could just tell by sitting with the children and how they responded to us, that they were happy just to have us there. They held our hands, they followed Jonathan around like he was a celebrity (probably because he treats like they are the most important person in the room-I know, world’s best husband, more on that later), they began to open up and laughed when we joked with them, taught us Zulu words and phrases, translated things into English for me and told us of their dreams to become scientists, archaeologists, teachers, writers, good wives and great parents and making their community a safe place.

People have been asking what the biggest memory/highlight/experience for me during our time in Durban and there are many memories that will last a lifetime; the way the children loved us, the beauty of South Africa, the faces and people, our amazing host family, Glenridge Church, but my answer is always the same: being there with Jonathan. For two weeks we spent essentially every moment together (except for bathroom breaks) and I never once wished I was experiencing things by myself or needed “Kelly time” during our trip. I am constantly amazed and thankful that Jonathan has chosen me to be his wife. What a blessing to be married to someone who is more concerned about loving people in a Christ-like way than anything else (and to be the recipient of such love daily).

God met me where I was in Durban and used me despite my shyness, my anxiety over being socially awkward and incredible fear of doing things in front of large groups. I sang into a microphone, I spoke in front of a large group, I made balloon animals like it was what I did on the weekends at home. It was in those moments of being out of my comfort zone that I felt the kids drawing closer to us and hopefully, ultimately drawn closer to God. Our theme for the first camp was “You are Valuable” and the second camp was “Overcoming Obstacles” sometimes I think it’s pretty funny that we set out to teach something we need to learn ourselves. This was one of those times. Praise the Lord for thinking those children in Africa are so valuable He called a group of Americans to travel hours and hours to spend time with them and that His idea of my self-worth is radically different from mine on those days when I fail to see His gifts as anything but burdens.

Maybe you’ll never go to Africa, but I’ll bet you’re being called to something. Just listen to that calling and then GO.

 

Africa-thank you!

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

First, we are so very thankful for our host family, the Meneses, who welcomed us into their home and let us sleep and eat as much as we wanted! Also, we rather enjoyed spending time with them.

Here is a photo of us with them on our last day:
kelly and jonathan w/ host family by J. McPherson.

Also, we could not have done half as well with the children during the leadership camp and holiday club if it wasn’t for the youth workers. I wasn’t able to get a photo of everyone, but I’ll share what we have:

Me and Akhona by you.

Kelly and Akhona

Me and Wendy by you.

Kelly and Wendy

Me and Lineo by you.

Kelly and Lineo

Me and Thuts by you.

Kelly and Thuts

Jonathan and Nathi by you.

Jonathan and Nathi

And we don’t have photos of them, but we are so thankful to Glenda for allowing us to be part of the ministry of iThemba Lethu for our time in Durban and to Anton and Derik who drove us around and made sure we had everything we needed and Ang and Alison who spent time with us and brightened our days each time we were in the office and Liz for taking us around and letting us join in an outing to the beach and for Mark who drove Jonathan and I home and told us about the area. Also, we are so glad that Patrick and Shannon were able to be our tour guides for a day and tell us more of the history of Durban and take us to places we wouldn’t have otherwise seen! We are grateful for your hospitality and you’re all welcome at our house anytime!

 We can’t forget our team: Jodie, our fearless and organized leader who helped us roll with the punches and be flexible and Natalie, Lisa, Tami and Kinsey who were always there supporting and encouraging us and each other. You truly made the trip for us! Thank you!

 

South Africa Game Drive

Tuesday, December 30th, 2008

On our last weekend in Durban, we were taken to Hluhluwe Game Reserve. We were SO excited to have the chance to see some African wildlife (other than monkeys) up close! Upon entry to the park, we were all sort of thinking of the Lion King and amazed at the beauty that surrounded us! We saw a few animals as we were driving up to our lodge, which just heighted the excitement for me!

Upon arriving to the gate, Jonathan took this photo of me by the sign (if you can’t read it, I’m pointing to the part that says “Keep a safe distance from elephants”). Telling. Very telling.

DSC_5492 by J. McPherson.

We got settled into our room and made our way to the main lodge area where we met our guide and loaded into a truck that looked like the one below for our three hour game viewing drive:

Our truck by you.

We set out to see the “Big Five” of Africa: Lion, African Elephant, Cape Buffalo, Black Rhinoceros and Leopard.

From the comfort of our seats we saw impala, rhinos, giraffe, zebra, cape buffalo, a warthog and elephants in the distance. I must say, I was slightly disappointed at the lack of lions, but it was very dark by the time we were making our way back to our lodge for dinner. As we were heading up a somewhat steep and windy dirt road surrounded by brush on both sides, we noticed the park vehicle ahead of us had a giant flashlight shining out the back. As we grew closer, we could hear people yelling and then, we could tell they were distinctly yelling at us. “Get back! Get back! An elephant! An elephant is charging us! Get back!” Hearing the panic in their voices, we knew they weren’t joking, but we really couldn’t see an elephant. Our quick-thinking guide put the vehicle in reverse and started heading back down the hill. Then we saw it in the headlights of the first vehicle-a rather sizable elephant running down the hill toward us with his ears flapping in the wind. Hm “an elephant running downhill has gravity on his side” was my second thought (after the first thought which I won’t share with the masses). Our driver was going at a clipping pace down the hill and was finally able to turn around after which I would say we were booking it out of there. We stopped after a few minutes to make sure the other vehicle made it out safely and then sped around the other side of the hill to make it back to the lodge. Just as we were getting close again, we saw ahead of us two large rhinos fighting in the road! They were not going to let us through. After being admonished by our guide to be quiet around the elephant, we were all silent. Then our guide started flicking the headlights, banging on the door of the truck and yelling! I thought I might wet my pants. The rhinos responded well to the noise though and broke free from their fighting and made way for us to pass. Hooray! I was SO very glad to make it to dinner that evening and didn’t even mind the Jurassic Park sized bugs that were in my hair, behind my ears and stuck inside Jonatha’s shirt. Okay, the one inside his shirt freaked me out.

About the noise factor, apparently elephants don’t give you a warning if they’re going to charge you so you should just be quiet and still and maybe it will forget you’re there. Other animals give you some sort of indication when they’re charging so you have some time to figure out your next move. Just a tip from our guide.

The next day, we took another game viewing drive and our guide, Johannes, just happened to be the fellow driving that other vehicle the night before. Turns out, the elephant was a male and um, in heat, and can’t find a mate. So he was pretty mad about that. So mad he was willing to attack anything in his way. I sure hope you found a mate, poor frustrated elephant.

That morning we were hoping to see something a little less exciting, like maybe just zebra standing in the shade and we did see a few vulchers, but mostly zebra and giraffe and they were moving slowly. It was perfect.

Here’s one of my favorite photos from that morning. It’s a baby rhino with its parent and a baby zebra with its parent.

DSC_5679 by J. McPherson.

If you’d like to see more photos from our game drive, please check out Jonathan’s photos here and here

 

Africa FUN!

Friday, December 26th, 2008

We did some great fun things in the evenings whilst in Durban.

We tried Bunny Chow-a local favorite:

Bunny Chow! by you.

We got to see the Indian Ocean!

We went to a themed restaurant and had our faces painted:

having my face painted by you.

I'm keeping this one because it's really cute of Lisa! by you.

us with our faces painted by you.

We had amazingly delicious coffee from this coffee shop:

Delicious by you.

We tried some local foods:

avacado bread! by J. McPherson.

(This is our friend Tami with bread topped with avocado and other deliciousness)

210 by you.

I ordered the vegetarian platter! It was HUGE, but so very delicious!

We did a little shopping:

christmas ornaments by J. McPherson.

Art at the NSA Gallery by you.

This style of beadwork is traditional Zulu art.

And I just thought these bowls were really pretty, but wouldn’t really fit in our suitcase.

bowls by J. McPherson.

We also got to go to a game park. More on that later…

 

Holiday Club

Friday, December 26th, 2008

The last official part of our “job” in South Africa was Holiday Club. iThemba Lethu has basically a day camp style program during the week of summer holidays (remember, southern hemi, it’s summer for them!). We were thrown for a bit of a loop when we found out the day before Holiday Club started that our team of seven would be split into two for programming at two locations. Even more sadly, Jonathan and I would be split due to logistics.

We set out Tuesday morning to our respective locations: Jonathan, Jodie, Lisa and Natalie to one school and Tami, Kinsey and me to another school. I was really nervous. You know that feeling when you could cry at any moment, that’s how I felt all morning long. We had only five children for a very long time, then we were told that due to the numbers of children, we were going to join the team at the other school. Praise the Lord! The five children we had with us were great, but coming up with six hours of fun for five children can be difficult, especially when we didn’t know any Zulu other than Sawubona (hello).

Upon our arrival, Jonathan was giving the message based on Daniel:

Day one of Holiday Club by you.

These three days were filled with some great fun: music, games, messages, small group time and amazing skits created and put on by the children. They LOVED skits! It was so great to see them perform for us. I was impressed with their creativity and with the depth of understanding of the topic.

A real highlight for me was this fellow; he never told me his name, but each day he would meet me at the door, take my hand and my backpack and laptop bag and carry everything for me. I tried to get him to stop but he wouldn’t take no for an answer-everyday! Then he would hug me! Then we would sit down and talk, but he mostly just wanted to hold my hand. We can hold hands anytime, buddy, anytime. Here we are on the last day of club:

The theme for this club was “Overcoming Obstacles” more than anything, I think I was the one who received the most “teaching” during these days. It was encouraging to see the children engage with their youth workers and the parent workers and to even see a teacher come by to see how things were going. What a gift to be part of this local movement of God’s work.

Oh, and Jonathan had quite the crowd of boys and girls on the last day. They were teaching him Zulu. I still think it’s great that he had such a following:

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More Africa…

Wednesday, December 24th, 2008

It feels like I’m in a time warp. What we did two weeks ago seems like both yesterday and last year. At any rate, continuing the “story” of our time in South Africa, after returning from Pennington Beach Camp we went to Glenridge Church with our host families and had a really wonderful time praising the Lord together.

Monday, we got to meet the babies at the iThemba Lethu transition home. And yes, we loved them! No, we cannot adopt from South Africa, but if you live in a country that’s not the U.S. you probably can and maybe you should!

We played with the children in the yard at the home and also got to take some of the older ones to the beach to play in the water! The two oldest boys LOVED playing with Jonathan in the surf.

Here is one of my favorite photos of our time with the boys Thomas and Duzy:

us with the kids by J. McPherson.

They are big lovers and such fun boys! Out of respect for their privacy, we won’t post many photos of our time with them, but suffice it to say that we loved each of the children and we’d love to show you photos and tell you stories in person! One little boy, Benny, was the first one to warm up to me and man, he stole my heart with his cuddles and smiles. And then there was little Stella, a strikingly beautiful baby girl who was clever and quiet and so much fun to be around. She wasn’t quite walking yet, but she would sit and talk with an amazing vocabulary! The only problem with Stella is that she didn’t want me to put her down and I didn’t want to put her down either, but my arms were tired! I’m not used to carrying anything for very long I guess! I’ll have to work out my arms a little more.

It was a great blessing for us to see the way the children were being loved and raised in a caring way that is growing them into loving and helpful kids. They all look out for each other and love each other like siblings (and yes, there are even tears and some hurt feelings over toys like siblings have too, which I thought was so great).

I believe we will need an Africa stories break for Christmas festivities. Stay tuned….