RIP, IKEA Media Cabinet

Written by jonathan on February 7th, 2010

media cabinet

When I (Jonathan) first moved to Seattle, I had almost no furniture. The moving men had trouble keeping a straight face when they arrived at my place in California.  I think you could have counted the number of boxes shipped to Washington on one hand.

This handsome media cabinet with tinted glass was one of my first purchases. It stored one of the most important pieces of equipment owned by young, economically disadvantged men: the thrift store stereo.

The stereo was, and is, a gem. I had this idea to hook up an old Linux computer to it so that visualizations and numbers would scroll by in an impressive fashion as music played, responding to the beat and generally looking cool. My idea was that people would see this feat of technological prowess and instantly realize how cool I was and want to be my friend.

You can see here how impressive the Linux computer is, and if you weren’t already my friend before reading this blog post, you probably want to be my friend now.

The stereo system was finicky, though, and it was soon disconnected and the computer abandoned. The media cabinet was displaced in the great furniture shuffle that took place when we rearranged the house so we’d have a room for the baby.

I listed it on Craigslist at a variety of prices, starting at $50 and working my way down to $20, with a brief second entry at $50 just because I didn’t want people to think it was a piece of junk. When it didn’t move, I bit the bullet and listed it as free.

Have you ever listed something for free on Craigslist? Free listings create bedlam. I’ve rarely had fewer than five emails in the first 20 minutes the listing is online. People don’t just tell you that they will take your unwanted things. They tell you why they need those unwanted things, knowing full well that you are about to get twenty more e-mails from people who want the thing that you, yourself, no longer want.

So: The media cabinet has gone to a good home, the computer system has been dismantled, and the stereo system is currently serving unobtrusively as a second pair of speakers for the television.  There’s probably a good metaphor in here about things going on to find new meaning in a different stage of life.

34 weeks and flowers

Written by kelly on February 5th, 2010
Yesterday we hit the 34 week mark! Craziness. It’s amazing to me to know that at this point in the pregnancy, were the baby to decide to make an early entrance, chances are good that things would be okay (aside from having absolutely no clean clothes to wear!). I’m feeling fairly huge and looking huge too, I’ll admit it. I’ve been asked more than once how much bigger I think I’ll get. This is an odd question to me because really, I expected to be about the size I was in November through the rest of the pregnancy so I’m just as surprised as anybody else that I’m so huge. Happily, it seems that little Champ is still enjoying his or her living quarters and I’m trying to focus on that rather than the fact that I’m so big I ran into a door more than once this week. Other than that, I’m feeling okay. I’m not going to lie, being on this emotional roller coaster isn’t that fun. I’d like to be able to wake up and know that for the whole day I’ll respond to things logically. I’m looking forward to that someday…whenever that someday happens. I’m a big fan of logic.
Hello from my office!

Hello from my office!

 As a special treat for you, I took my own photo this week. Using my camera’s self-timer and perching the poor camera on a shelf in my office. It’s terrible. BUT it does give you a glimpse of where I work and show off some lovely flowers I received from my coworkers this week as a thank you. I now know a few more things about myself: 1-I really, really love flowers. 2-my affections can be easily purchased from the local florist. 3-I trust Jonathan to take my photos for a reason.

Yay for flowers!

Yay for flowers!

And a shot of just the flowers. Well, kind of. A photo of the flowers and the cord for my printer.

We’ve got some big fun planned for this weekend and it’s been a week of really enjoyable things too. I’m hoping to post more on that later! Have a great weekend everyone!

Excitement! Disappointment!

Written by kelly on February 3rd, 2010

One of my favorite times of the year is the week leading up to the Super Bowl. Not because I follow football, though I do enjoy viewing a game or two. It is the fact that this is one time of year I can count on Tostidos brand Salsa con Queso to be on sale for around $2. Imagine my joy last night as Jonathan brought in the weekly circulars! I was preparing supper, so I had him go through the adverts to see who “won” with the lowest price for queso and then I would plan our weekly menu/grocery shopping around this location. You know what happened?  Nobody wins. Everyone loses this week because queso is not less than $3 anywhere. It was all very disappointing. Some people want chocolate or decadent foods that can only be acquired by artisans who hand craft their specialty in a specific location. I’m a simple girl. I just want the queso and a good, crispy tortilla chip that can hold an adequate amount of said queso. Oh and a coca-cola classic (Mexican please, it tastes so much better). If there happens to be a bag of jelly bellies involved, you won’t find me complaining. Rereading this, I sound like I have the snacking habits of a first grader. Excellent! First graders always have energy! Also, please note, were there not a baby currently enjoying the warmth of my womb, I would include red wine and sushi to this list.

How about you? Do you have a favorite snack to enjoy while watching the big game? Any alternatives to queso that I should try? (Please do not suggest a store brand queso. I might cry.)

33 Weeks!

Written by kelly on January 30th, 2010

Wow, sometimes it’s really hard to believe we’ve made it to the 33 week mark already! We celebrated by having a doctor’s appointment and going to our childbirth class during which we toured the hospital’s childbirth center and didn’t panic too much.

I’m happy to say that from what can be determined on the outside, baby McPherson seems to be healthy and growing. We continue to be thankful for the many, many kicks that happen throughout the day and night.  The most wonderful thing for me is watching our baby respond to Jonathan’s voice and see that Champ knows who Dad is just by hearing him! Amazing! For those of you who do not get to see us regularly, here is a photo. Only seven weeks left till our due date!

Kelly and Champ at 33 weeks

Kelly and Champ at 33 weeks

For Tim

Written by kelly on January 25th, 2010
Rachel & Tim

Rachel & Tim

Rachel and I are blessed to be loved by two men who are a positive delight. While they are not terribly similar, Tim and Jonathan do share one thing in common: they LOVE bread. When this month’s Martha Stewart Living arrived, I thumbed through it quickly and saw a recipe for “bread four ways” and asked Jonathan if he’d like me to make one of the recipes. An emphatic yes was his response and a quick trip to the grocery store to pick up the ingredients we did not already have. Since I know Tim would like this bread too, I thought I’d post it up here so those in the UK without access to MSL will also be able to bake some delicious bread.

 The beginning recipe:

Classic White Bread (yield two loaves)

1 Tablespoon plus 1.5 Teaspooons active dry yeast (two envelopes)
2.25 Cups water (110 degrees)
3 Tablespoons plus 2 Teaspoons honey
4 Tablespoons unsalted butter, melted, plus more for the bowl, pans and brushing
7 Cups all-purpose flour, plus more for surface and dusting
2 Tablespoons course salt

1. Sprinkle yeast over 1/2 cup of water. Add 2 teaspoons of honey. Whisk until yeast dissolves. Let stand until foamy, about five minutes. Transfer to bowl of a mixer fitted withe the paddle or dough0hook attachment. Add butter and remaining 1 3/4 cups water and 3 tablespoons honey. Whisk flour with salt; add 3 cups to yeast mixture. Mix on low speed until smooth. Add remaining 4 cups flour, 1 cup at a time, mixing until dough comes away from sides of bowl and forms a ragged, slightly sticky ball. Butter a large bowl.
2. Knead dough on a floured surface until smooth and elastic, but still slightly tacky, about five minutes. Shape into a ball. Transfer to prepared bowl; cover with plastic wrap.
3. Let dough stand in a warm place until it doubles in volume (it should not spring back when pressed-go ahead! press it! It’s cool to see your finger leave a mark!), about 1 hour. Butter two 4.5″x8.5″ loaf pans. Punch down dough; divide in half.
4. Shape 1 dough half into an 8.5″ long rectangle (mine was more of a long snaky blob thing, this is fine). Fold long sides of dough in to middle, overlapping slightly. Press seam to seal. Transfer dough, seam side down, to pan. Repeat with remaining dough. Brush each loaf with butter, or dust with flour for a rustic look (we do not dust with flour in our house because when someone was a child he or she may have been a little mean to a younger sibling and advised said sibling that all bread with flour on the top is mouldy. The sibling has never gotten over it and somehow the one who originally came up with the idea began to believe it as well). Preheat the over to 450 degrees. Drape loaves with plastic. Let stand until dough rises about 1″ above tops of pans, 45 minutes to 1 hour. Reduce oven temperature to 400 degrees. Bake, rotating pans after 20 minutes, until tops are golden brown, about 45 minutes. Transfer to wire racks. Let cool slightly; turn out loaves. Let cool completely before slicing (yeah right-this was eaten almost immediately and we have no photos of our own for that very reason).

Okay, and for the variation I chose:

Mmmm bread

Multigrain:

In the ingredients, replace 5 cups of flour with 3 cups whole wheat flour and one cup rye flour

In Step 1: soak 1/2 cup bulgar in 1/2 cup water for 20 minutes; set aside. Add 1.5 cups water instead of 1.75 cups. Before the second addition of flour, mix in soaked bulgar, 1/2 cup rolled oats, 1/4 cup flaxseeds and 1/4 raw sunflower seeds.

In Step 4: brush tops of loaves with egg wash, not butter, and sprinkle with oats and sunflower seeds. Dab tops with egg wash to help adhere.

This makes a rather delicious bread for sandwiches and toast. Or you could just eat it on its own. Enjoy!

Haiti

Written by kelly on January 21st, 2010

We generally try to keep things light here at the McPherson house. That, combined with the busy business of preparing for baby McPherson, lack of cable television and my overwhelmingly emotional response to things of late, have kept me from blogging about the situation in Haiti. However, yesterday morning we stayed home a bit longer than usual and I was able to indulge in viewing the Today Show for a few minutes and I was able to see my first video footage of the situation in Haiti. Total destruction. I’ll admit that Haiti’s economic situation is a mystery to me. How can a country be so close to the United States and such a stark contrast? In Haiti, the average person lives on $2 a day, 80% of the population lives in poverty and there is a 50% literacy rate.  This wouldn’t be considered acceptable anywhere in the United States. If nothing else, perhaps this tragedy will bring to light situations that have existed for decades and now cannot, will not, be ignored by the world. God has not forgotten the people of Haiti, no matter what you may hear in the media.

I know that traveling to Haiti right now is an outright stupid idea and it wouldn’t help anything but my conscience. However, there are several organizations that are already in Haiti who could use our help. Yep, open up the wallets folks, I’m sure there’s something you can skip this week to free up some cash to donate.

If you’re not sure where to start, here’s a list of organizations that will take your money if you’re looking for a place to start (I recommend noting Haiti somewhere so your money goes directly to help Haitians; not that there isn’t good work being done other places, but that’s another blog post):

Compassion International
American Red Cross

Samaritan’s Purse
World Concern (based in Seattle)

Want to get a little something while you give? Buy a Help Haiti T-Shirt here. 100% of the proceeds will be donated and divided between Real Hope for Haiti and Heartline Ministries.

UPDATE: The U.S. Senate approved tax deductions on your 2009 tax filings for Haiti relief donations! Click here for more info!

29 weeks!

Written by jonathan on January 13th, 2010

Here’s Kelly and Champ at 29 weeks! This photo was taken just before the New Year. Champ’s really been kicking lately and sometimes we can feel his (her?) foot poking out–this morning I think I pushed on it too hard because Kelly said that I made Champ flail around a lot. Sorry Champ. Your dad loves you and can’t wait to meet you.

28 weeks on Christmas Eve!

Written by jonathan on January 10th, 2010

Yes, one of us is a little behind with photos. Champ turned 28 weeks on Christmas Eve and we’re now at 30 weeks and counting! We took our first childbirth class at the hospital this past Thursday; it was the first of a seven-week series. It’s kind of incredible to think that Champ will be (almost) full-term at the end of the class.

(P.S. Photo also available with antlers.)

Book Review: NurtureShock

Written by jonathan on January 4th, 2010

nurtureshock

I first learned about this book from my sister, Megan. I later read an exerpt from the book published as a magazine article, and I knew I’d need to read the rest.

Like a lot of popular science books (and as the reader is warned in the title itself), this volume is intended to shock you. It’s a survey of recent research that attacks some of the long-held assumptions forming the core of modern American parenting. Initially skeptical because of the somewhat alarmist tone of the book, I admit that I found the research numbers very convincing. There were at least two or three chapters that made us rethink the way we will raise Champ.

Here are some of the more surprising things I learned from the book, presented in no particular order. Since the thing that makes this book entertaining is the little shock you get when they lay down the counter-intuitive research punchline, skip this list if you plan to read the book yourself.

  • The biggest factor influencing verbal development is not the number of words a child is exposed to or how much parents talk to the child. It’s the way parents respond when the child makes sounds.
  • Frequently praising children for their innate qualities (e.g. intelligence) often leads to arrogance and poor performance, as children fear that failure will demonstrate their lack of these innate qualities. Children who are praised more sparingly and praised for effort perform better and feel better about their work.
  • Children who are not taught about racial issues form their own conclusions and stereotypes about race, which are often wildly inappropriate by adult standards. Children cannot think abstractly enough to comprehend simplistic statements from parents like “everyone is equal no matter the color of their skin.”
  • Too much emphasis is placed on early development and “giftedness”. There is extremely little correlation between a child’s early identification as “gifted” (e.g. in kindergarten) and the child’s later academic performance. Many children truly are late bloomers.
  • Baby Einstein and other television programming for very young children have a negative effect on childrens’ development, because children don’t learn from them and they take time away from parental interaction, from which children do learn. This is due partly to the role response plays in learning and partly to children discerning word separation from the lip movement of the speaker; educational videos often use disembodied voices.
  • Children often learn negative behavior from children’s books and television programming while missing the moral of the story.
  • Very involved fathers often have children that are just as poorly behaved as children of fathers who play a more traditional role. This is largely due to inconsistent discipline–lack of punishment, differing punishments for the same crimes, caving at the wrong time, etc.
  • The most healthy teen-parent relationships include arguing. The teens who respect their parents’ authority will argue with rules; the teens who do not respect their parents’ authority simply ignore rules.
  • Improving one dimension of a child’s life–for instance, teaching the child to be more grateful–does not necessarily improve any other dimension. That is, adding positives to a child’s life does not remove or even necessarily counterbalance the negatives.
  • One of the best skills a child in the early years of school can learn is that of self-evaluation. Students who learn to critique their own and others’ work do very well later.

… And that’s not everything. Highly recommended for parents-to-be, but take it with a grain of salt: while the research is convincing, some of it is quite new and therefore hasn’t been well-established or duplicated outside one group or setting.

Project 365, 2009

Written by jonathan on January 1st, 2010
Project 365

Project 365

Project 365 is… well, here’s where it started. The idea was to take one photo every day–boring day, interesting day, weekend, weekday, doesn’t matter. It was an exercise for photographers, mostly, who could use the motivation and daily deadline to force themselves to practice and to get creative.

A lot of my friends did the project in 2008, not with the goal of becoming creative photographers but with the goal of documenting one thing that happened each day, a sort of visual journal. In 2009, without a lot of forethought, I started my own Project 365. You can see all the finished photos here or read the photoblog here; I took them with my cell phone, and there are fewer than 365 because I did not post any photos while we were in England or while I was in South Africa.

It’s kind of funny to scroll over the photos and watch an entire year go by. It’s like flipping through pages in a calendar, except I am, very literally, watching a year of our lives flash before my eyes. A year doesn’t look like a long time when you can flick through it in two seconds

The best thing about Project 365? You can’t pick what you remember each day. But you can pick your Picture of the Day, and many days it’s what you will wind up remembering from that day, because so many days seem unremarkable until you look for something remarkable in them. Events and memories just seem to happen to us. It’s good to have a reminder, even once a day, that we have some voice in the matter.

I’m going to do the exercise again in 2010. And you’re welcome to join!